Alright, so in the back (or the front) of my mind since I purchased a ’98 Camaro Z28* was facing my fear of the manual transmission. I instantly drew many similarities to how businesses view social media in their business. No bystanders were hurt in the making of this blog entry. [keep reading…]

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Since the Jessi Slaughter incident, I’ve been thinking about how I can help others manage and understand how to broach the subject of social media with their children. I’ve come up with five topics that will help demystify social media for parents.

This is a mind map of Social Media for Parents

  • What’s Out There? – Discover the landscape of what’s on the web, what people do and where they do it on the web. It’s basically an intro for parents who want to learn more about social media.
  • The Real Risks of Social Media – I won’t be the first to say that social media consists of unicorns and rainbows. There are legitimate risks in social media that exist. Once you know the risks, you can manage it for a safer online experience.
  • How the Web Works (with Content) – Want to know what happens to content that gets published on the web? Perhaps to investigate the truths (and myths) of how to delete content that was published. I’ll break it all down for you.
  • Managing Privacy Online – Not all websites offer powerful privacy controls, but many do. Learn how to keep your information private and safe from prying eyes. Even if you’re not parenting, you can’t miss this guide on managing your privacy on the web.
  • How to Handle Online Harassment – Harassment has evolved from the school campus to the Facebook, the Text and the Twitter. Understand what you can do to stop and manage harassment on the web.
  • Suggestions for the ‘Social Media Talk’ – I’ll share some tactful ways to talk about social media with your kids that won’t include too many awkward moments. Communication and trust is foundation of having a safe and rewarding experience in social media.

This will be helpful for parents as well as anyone else who wants to understand some of the dynamics of social media and at least a different angle on what we all do.

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Social Media Influence

Social Media Influence

by Joe on July 23, 2010

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There’s been a bunch of talk about influence and how to measure it, what to do with it and how to work it within the space of social media, PR and marketing. For me, it’s not that influence doesn’t exist, I believe in some respects it does — however — I think taking business or personal action around it is a poor choice for one to make.

Take me for example. I’m not that influential. I have 2,550 Twitter followers and 546 Facebook friends. By the numbers, I’m a drop in the bucket compared to a Chris Brogan, a Guy Kawasaki or a Bill Gates. To a robot, I am insignificant for a corporation’s PR team to bother with and my feedback doesn’t have a big dent in a company’s image. That robot is named Klout.

Measuring the influence of someone online is breeding ignorance of the fact that we’re human and will have varying levels of discrimination (and endorsement) of others’ views. After all, anyone who has strong influence online (per Klout) had to start somewhere. They just happened to start several years ago at building their image and delivering on their unwritten promises.

Here’s the flaw in social media influence:

@<Name Influential Person Here> <Company> really screwed me. Your thoughts?

Social media influence – by all calculations – doesn’t and can’t measure the fact that there are people who may be interested in helping another person with spreading the word about a cause (or their cause). There isn’t a set of social media tools, social media sites, or any other social media management apps that predict the future. If you find one – let me know.

So what’s a brand or business to do in social media?

Listen. Use humans and wherever possible tune out the noise (spam). I don’t care if you’re BP or any other hated brand. You have a duty to listen if you think you have a right to join the conversation.

Don’t get caught up in the influence of a content publisher beyond the scope of the watercooler. Everyone deserves remarkable service no matter how much influence they have. Otherwise if you disagree with that, publish who gets premium, white-glove support and who doesn’t within your profile. I doubt any brand would dare consider that.

Who really casts more influence? Because an influential person mentioned you doesn’t necessarily mean results will happen. They might only ask a question and the people you actually care about and support will defend you and share how they really feel about your company.

If you couldn’t tell already, I feel “social media influence” is complete bullshit. It’s a popularity contest over who can hustle more clicks. Are we in middle school? Who has more friends? Seriously?

Thank you, Fast Company, for confusing the big corporations and the decision makers about this topic. I would love nothing more than the folks at 4chan to make Moot the most influential person on the Internet and spell “JESSI SLAUGHTER” with all the other participants just to prove the lameness of that contest.

Your thoughts? Again, I’m not saying social media influence doesn’t exist – it does to a degree – but I feel it’s improper to use it in business decisions. Everyone is influential.

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Listen, Respond and Support Your Community

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User communities are powerful. They can be the silent minority or the loud majority and they cause an impact to the bottom line of a business. Apple is a fine example of why supporting their user community could have saved them $10 million, preserved their image and provided stellar customer service. I’ve previously criticized Apple [...]

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Ya Dun Goofed: The Case of Jessi Slaughter (Updated)

July 17, 2010 social media

Maybe by now you heard about the eleven year old, Jessi Slaughter, (not her real name) and her father’s fame on YouTube. In a period of about four days, about four separate memes have spawned from the series of videos from the pair. I watched the videos, and they are funny, stupid and well, viral. [...]

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Unicorns and Rainbows

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That basically sums up social media for people who don’t live, eat and breathe it. I’ve had this on my mind for a while because some people seem to think social media is always positive, rewarding and helpful. Don’t get me wrong — it is — but in reality, it takes work, patience and discipline [...]

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United States vs. State of Arizona (RE: S.B. 1070)

July 6, 2010 Politics

Today, a lawsuit was officially filed against Arizona due to the illegality of S.B. 1070.  I’ll let you read through it yourself: I’m in favor of the United States suing to ensure the civil rights apply equally across all the states. This was a disaster from the start, wastes taxpayer dollars and resources and was [...]

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